So, you have had a baby! And now, you are back in the groove of being intimate with your partner. Sadly, you may start to realize that sex after baby is nothing like sex was before. You may be uncomfortable, or thinking about your new baby, or not able to achieve orgasm after pregnancy orgasm at all — no matter how hard you try. Learning to deal with sex in a new way can be frustrating; but just as it took some time to find out what worked for you after your first sexual experience, you can get your groove back after having a baby! Focusing during sex requires that the amygdala shuts off; if not, you may not be orgasm after pregnancy to achieve an orgasm!